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Category: Thought for the Day

Creating your own Curriculum Vitae (CV) – Resume

There is lots of information available on the internet about how best to create a CV- Resume.  Nearly all of it is in the standard formats but very little that really says a lot about who you are.  I have found from reviewing many CV’s over the years that what one reads on paper and what one finds in the person are very different.  Remember when you are employing people you want them to work with other people and the standard formatted CV tells you very little about the person. You know there are things that only you know about yourself and there are things other see in you that you are not aware of.  One of the best ways to start with creating a new CV is to ask for some honest feedback about how others see you.  You should not be offended if you received some points that you don’t at first accept or like.  Just be thankful for the feedback you have been given. Ask family members, partners, work colleagues and friends to write out 5 things you do well and 5 things that you might need to improve.  The more you learn about yourself the more you develop.  Most jobs are found through recommendations people who know you and are willing to recommend you.  So to get talked about and standout from the crowd start creating your new CV today. It is a risk but dare to be different

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No time like the present

We all want to change something in our lives but yet never seem to make or take the time to do so – What do you need to change and why not now? There is always support out there for you – and most times we are surprised when and how it comes – but it is up to you to look for it.

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What are you waiting for?

I have often written about stepping out there and doing what is different, finding out who you are and having the courage to be who you are.  Making that difference in your life will also make a difference in others.  We often fear that people will notice and not like the new you, well the photograph with this blog was taken by my sister Janet at a beautiful lake close to her home.  When people see this photograph they often respond with “what an amazing picture” If you take the risk you can also look amazing-what are you waiting for?

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No one is responsible for You except You

We often forget that we come into this world with nothing and we will leave the same way with nothing.  But I hear you saying some will enter this world with better opportunities and more privileges then others, this may be true.  Although many with these so called privileges will waste them and many without will grow to create them.  What we achieve while we are here is up to each and every one of us.  How we achieve it and how we participate in our own achievements is also in our own hands.  Too often we believe that it is up to others to provide for us, so why should we do anything to support ourselves. Here is  song called “Started with nothin and I still got most of it left” and I have most of whit left written and performed my Seasick Steve – enjoy “>

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Mission Statement

After reading a book which contained a summary of articles published from regular Newsletters I came across this Mission Statement below for the Carnegie Centre. The Centre is situated in Downtown Eastside Vancouver and most of the articles are written by and about the people and community of Downtown Eastside.  Following the post about the words of the His Holiness the 14th Dali Lama I thought if every country implemented this Mission Statement it might move us and future generations to a better place for us all.  The critical issue is for each of us to make a start and implement the guiding principles outline below. Paul Taylor has been the volunteer Editor of the Newsletter since its beginning and from what I have read championed excellent work.  As outlined in many of the stories and poems there are many individuals who should be ashamed of their actions towards the community and centre. Carnegie Mission Statement 2001 Our Mission is to nature mind, body and spirit in a safe and welcoming environment.  Through the leadership and participation of our volunteers, we provide social educational, cultural, and recreational activities for the benefit of the people of Downtown Eastside. Guiding Principles To treat one another with respect regardless of  race, ethnicity, colour, religion gender or age To accept and celebrate a diversity of  lifestyles and cultures To listen and to strive to understand one another To settle differences and misunderstandings through patience and goodwill To respect the personal and private space of one another while offering friendship and inclusion in the life of the Centre To build on one another’s strengths. Skills and natural abilities To contribute to the work of the centre while enjoying the benefits of the Centre To ensure that people in our community are supported in finding their own voice, and in participating in the life of the Centre To serve the community inside Carnegie and in the Downtown Eastside

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Power of Truth

I got the opportunity to go and see His Holiness the 14th.  Dali Lama, I must say I was very taken by his beautiful words.  I thought I would share with you some of what I heard and the elements that struck me the most.  For those of you who may have never heard his voice he is a very quietly and peaceful spoken man who breaks into laughter every so often.  His words are well chosen and simple in context with great emphasis to communicate and educate others.  Demonstrating compassion in what we do and eagerness to learn and to listen to those who we may be in conflict with.  So that we can understand, learn and move towards better harmony in our lives.  There must have been well over 20,000 people in the audience and one could hear a pin drop as he spoke. His Holiness started with, we all seem to strive for happiness in our lives and this is obtainable and the right of all people.  We are no different from our neighbours who share this planet with us.  Respect for those who may believe in other ways and religions and for those who maybe non believers.  For no matter what religion you may believe in we are all striving for the same things and each religions seeks compassion, love and sharing with mankind. Education starting with the very young in the ways of listening to differences and wanting only well for others is critical if future generations are to create better lives for all.  Eliminating the gaps between rich and poor, human suffering, communities and country conflicts of war.  Ten years have nearly passed in this 21st century and we must not neglect the learning from the past centuries.  We have been passive bystanders’ and negligent in taking the learning to ensure we do not commit the same atrocities as in the 20th century. The negative thinking of the me, my, I and greed are destructive to us personally and to our neighbours. Mankind have through its greed created destructions in our world.  Humility and compassion towards others is what is required, promoting dialog and discussion to gain understanding.  Destructive actions will harm both those who are creating them and you in the long term if not prevented. The power of truth will always succeed in life and must be practiced.

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What if you never use the skills you know you have?

I am often asked the question by individuals what do I think they should do in their career or life?  I normally answer with a question like, well what do you think you should do with your career or in your life?  That is usually a good starting place. Creating any change in your life, the first thing one must accept is that it is your responsibility and change is in your own hands.  So if you have any questions like this on your mind start with asking yourself.  Most people when asked will say – well if I have this or if I could afford that I would do ………! But this is stopping me. What if individuals like Eric Clapton, Johnny Cash, Mozart, Nelson Mandela, Charlie Chaplin or other great actors, painters and artists we know of never shared their talents with the world?  I believe we would be missing out.  No matter well known or not there are people all over the world sharing their skills and making a difference to their own lives  and the lives of others by being who they really are. Just think for one minute if you never take that risk or share your skills to do what you want to do or to be the person you want to become, will you regret it? Maybe the world will miss out –don’t put off what you know you should do. So put your hand up and repeat after me “Change is in my hands” –I will start today?

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Sorry Speak up I Can’t Hear You

I was sitting in a coffee shop the other day working away in the peace and quiet with just the background music when guess what someone decided to make a phone call on their mobile phone.  In most cases this is normally OK but I must say there is nothing more annoying then someone in a public location having a very loud discussion on their mobile phone as if they were the only person in the place. They carried on their discussion as if everyone in the vicinity must have wanted to hear what they had to say.  Like everyone in the coffee shop I said nothing and I tried to carry on with my work ignoring as best I could this very loud person on their phone.  I believe a little politeness would go a long way and people could still have their conversation but only at a lower tone and showing respect for those who shared the immediate vicinity. I think that there should be a signal or diagram that everyone becomes familiar with that we could use to communicate to the offending person on their mobile that they are speaking too loud and to either speak quietly, move to another more private location or hang up.  I have not figured out what that signal or diagram should be as yet. So any suggestions for the signal or the picture/wording one could use? Thanks to www.zazzle.ca for the picture I have used on this post

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Leadership Requires Courage Not Excuses

“How to stop the worrying and learn to love the job”– article written by Wallace Immen for the Globe and Mail daily newspaper.  The article was based on an interview with Graham Jones who is a Psychologist and Leadership Consultant.  The article was mostly around the pressure of the job of leadership.  After reading the article I said to myself well that was fairly basic stuff and boy if individuals in leadership positions don’t even know this stuff then they don’t deserve to be in their positions.  The sooner they step down the better it is for the organisation that they are supposed to be leading. Why do I draw this conclusion well the article starts with talking about in times of pressure like now with the economic recession and the difficulties of operating in times like this, therefore if leaders think differently at this time then they will inspire themselves and their people.  My question is, aren’t leaders supposed to think differently all of the time?  It is my opinion that we are missing the point here the reality is most leaders have never experienced times like this and therefore don’t seem to have or gained the skills to work their way out of these types of serious situations.  This in turn is now being called as pressure, the only reason its pressure is that they don’t have answers to the issues at hand and have not got the skills to come up with answers.  To get out of where they are at now needs courage, risk and commitment so that the real leaders can stand out and not only communicate a vision but actually start the implementation process and stick with it. The article goes on to say “real leaders make decisions and stand by them and tell it how it is”. It describes leaders has having mental toughness and wait for it setting daily goals (a to do list) – I am sorry but I would consider this very basic stuff, if your employees on first line management don’t even have these skills well I would feel your business is already in difficulty.  This is the bit that really got me “Stinking thinking” to stop the negative thinking “you have to ask yourself questions such as is there another way to view this situation”. Is this not simple basic problem solving or what?  Maybe it is back to simple basics of management? I believe the main issue for leaders today is the internal politics that is waiting within their organisation for the leaders to make a mistake so those in opposition can say I told you so and see this as their opportunity to take over.  Or to do nothing as others at senior management levels don’t have solutions either and therefore do nothing.  This leads to a great lack of decision making by most leaders and therefore playing it safe rather than standing up and doing what is required.  In times of great difficulty a good leaders will gather or create a loyal and trusted team.  Work with them to create and drive out the required decisions and activities that are necessary to secure the organisations future.  A real leader will inspire, encourage and visibly demonstrate support for the vision.  Removing any obstacles that might hinder the team in delivering the agreed vision. Finally I do agree with one point made within the article and that is the ability to switch off and create a balance in your work life with home life.  Taking time out to take care of you, be that exercise, meditation, quite thinking time and most of all the one I would strongly add is real leaders need to have the ability to have fun and laugh in live.

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There are always two sides

I met this fantastic German lady who was all of 85 years old.  She arrived in Canada in 1947 and was now happly living here for the past 63 years. In our conversation I said you must have been in Germany during the Second World War where upon she started to tell me a story about her life at this time.  I was delighted to hear it and the clarity at which she told me was amazing as if it was only yesterday. She lived in Poland with her family, as after the First World War Poland had become an independent state and now occupied some lands that once belong to Germany.  When the German Army invaded Poland in 1939 she was a young girl of 14 years old.  She was then able to attend a German speaking school in Poland.  When she reached 17 years old she worked as a secretary for the German Army in Poland.  Towards the end of the war the Russian Army were advancing on the city which she was working and given the stories she had heard of the atrocities being committed by the advancing Russian troops she decided to try and escape as quickly as she could.  Her family lived over 30 kilometres away which was now in the hands of the Russian Army.  She approached the most senior ranking German Officer in the office in which she worked and asked would they take her with them if they were retreating back to Germany.  He was unsure of his orders and told her to be ready to go at a minutes’ notice. During one of the bombings on the city the following night instead of going to the air raid bunker she fled the city by train.  At that time one could only travel sixty kilometres on any given journey.  Before she left the army offices where she worked she managed to take an amount of ration books with her.  These ration books were extremely valuable at the time and she was able to use them along her route to encourage people to buy additional train tickets to take her further south. All the train carriages were occupied by German soldiers, during her long and dangerous train journey she sat on her small suit case on the outside between the carriages.  She described her journey in detail with her face and blonde hair turning black from the smoke of the train engine and the numerous attacks on the train by fighter planes.  Where she would have to get underneath the train for safety. Along the way she enquired of several people where would it be safe for her to get off the train and finally she did so in the small town in Bavaria.  She stayed here for nearly a year and with no idea of what had happened to her family back home. She knew the America and English armies were advancing but she was not too concerned.  When the surrender of Germany was announced in May 1945, there were celebrations in the town.  She along with some other friends watched the American soldiers enter the town.  She described them as they marched along the narrow street as doing some sort of funny movement with their mouths.  They were of course chewing gum, which she had never seen before, they handed out oranges and chewing gum and call out to the girls – “hey Blondie” they shouted she remembered. Now that the war was over she tried to trace her family back home, her father she knew was living in Canada as he had gone to seek work there in 1928 when she was only three years old.  She had no idea where he was living in Canada.  Her mother and older sister with two small children were somewhere in Poland if they had survived the war.  Her brother in law who was in the Germany army was also missing.  One day after work she went to lie down and prayed that she could remember where her father was.  In a dream she saw an envelope with is address clearly written on it, she awoke from the dream and wrote down immediately what she had seen in her vision.  She had a vision of an envelope with the name and address as she had seen as a child from the letters that her mother would receive from Canada before the start of the war.  In her dream she clearly saw her father’s name, address and the letters SAK –Sackatchewan Canada. That day she wrote  letter and posted it to her father.  Not know would it ever get to him and after a month of waiting one morning a letter arrived from her father in Canada. He was able to tell her that her mother, sister and children were alive but her brother-in-law was captured and he was in a concentration camp under Russian control.  It took over two years from that day to secure her documents and her place on a trip to join her father in Canada.  Three years later with the support of the Red Cross they were joined by her mother, sister and children and brother-in-law who was released from the concentration camp. She has now her own children and grand children all doing well.  She also shared with me the sadness she feels of selling her family home as she misses her own home, her yard and garden.  She told me her name and I have decided not to use it in this story. I thanked her for sharing her story with me while we passed the time and I greatly admired her courage and innovation.  She shined of a positive attitude and great determination in her live as she continues to travel to visit her family and friends across Canada.  One could feel a beautiful kindness in her heart.

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