Remind me again – it’s Valentine’s Day

Happy wishes to all lovers – and remember – there are no limits when it comes to love.

Love is in the eye of the beholder. I often think of the barriers people place before them as they seek to choose that ‘special’ person in their life. They decide that the person must be this or must be that, or they must look like this or that, they must have this or must have that. These false beliefs are really just chasing the Hollywood image.

If we  listen to the person’s heart and forget about looks, forget about  money, and forget all those false images and wants then we can easily find happiness in our choices. Just listen to their heart – for it is from there they will speak to you.

When it all comes down to it, most of us just want to feel loved, have fun, and be happy in our world.

The person that will help do this for you is the person that is right for you.

You can hold all the other false images in your fantasy world, but if you don’t have real love you have nothing.

So, make sure when you have found that true love in your life that you work hard to keep it – and deliver on your commitments to the relationship.

One way is to communicate with your partner on all levels. If you have trouble doing that then work at it, for honest communication is vital in a meaningful relationship.

We should not need a special day in the year to remind us to look after the one we love; one day to tell them they are loved, make a little fuss about them. We should do it every day. If Valentine’s Day is the one special day we decide to have fun with our partner and make them laugh then it is likely one of the last days we will be with that person. Don’t wait for Valentine’s Day to let them know how you feel about them.

Do you need one day in the year to remind you, or will you remember every day?

Change is in your hands.