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The Savvy Child Within You - Become successful in your life and business using the forgotten childhood wisdom. Why is that when we enter the world of business we lose the inner wisdom of the child within us. The laughter, curiosity, honesty and the willingness to play together. Learn how to find that child and continue always to seek its wisdom and truth so that you can bring the inner child qualities into your personal life and business world.

Into Me I See
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A new poetry book composed by Mel Clifford & Emily Elzbeth.
Discover rarely seen inner worlds within this little treasure of poetry and photography. Each selection is vulnerably presented in its raw state freshly drawn from the soul of each author.


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Changing the Way I Am
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Second book of poetry composed by Mel Clifford. Additional poems kindly provided with the permission of the authors. Poems written from four generations of family poets. Kindle eBook on Amazon ONLY

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The Adventures of Doc Higgins – The True Story of King Henry VIII
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The second book in the series of The Adventures of Doc Higgins and his time travel invention, 'the Higulator'. Have the Craic when Doc meets King Henry VIII with the Manager and sets up the plan for getting his new wife.

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The Adventures of Doc Higgins
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The tale of Doc Higgins and his time travel invention. How does the famous Doc plan to bring Alistair back from 1965 to his Nora?

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Poetry Just for You
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Selection of Poetry composed by Mel Clifford. Additional poems kindly provided with the permission of the authors.

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A lesson I learnt many years ago was to ask the right question so as to get the real answer. How many of your with school children ask them as soon as they get home or you pick them up after a day at school “ how was school today?” What answer to you get?  I am sure it is the same one I used to get “fine”. So what happens next, you continue to do what you were doing, and they continue to do what they were doing.  So what have you learnt? – Nothing.

How about we change the question and ask “how did you feel in school today” and see the difference, firstly you will be more attentive to the answer and secondly you will get a different answer to “fine” Maybe not on the first go, why because your kid(s) have been programmed already by your previous question and they will give the automatic programmed answer.  It will take them a few goes to get to understand what you are really asking them so they can share their feelings.

Now let’s translate this into your relationship or workplace or friendships.  Try asking some of the following questions:-

  • How did you feel in work today?
  • How do you feel about our relationship?
  • When this happened how did your feel about it?
  • When I said this how did you feel about what I said?
  • How did you feel the meeting (discussion) went just now?
  • What do you feel about the approach we are taking?

There are many more questions for different situations all you have to do is ask.

A little tip for you – look on Skype for the little images  – they say a lot in one picture about feelings.

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