I am sure you have heard of the saying “if you are not part of the solution you are part of the problem” or a different saying you might of come across “don’t bring me problems bring me solutions”.
Well how does this sound, the solution is – “I am leaving – the problem is you are an asshole” or I am part of the solution “good bye”. If one can’t understand or see the issues than how are they expected to see the solutions?
It is only through communications with individuals will you be able to first recognise if there is a problem and secondly get to some form of acceptance that things might need to change. Non communications is definitely a sign of a problem and the quick solution is to start talking about it.
So just stating don’t bring me problems bring me solutions will not solve anything except more problems. Lots of people will not see there is a problem in the first place or if they do have a problem they may need to get some support with how to solve it. Whatever the issues are that one needs to deal with, big or small we all need support. If one could solve the problem on their own there would be no need to tell you and there would be no problem.
What they are seeking is your support or advice and maybe it is just for you to listen – you might not be asked or expected to come up with the solution, just listening will do sometimes we need someone to listen and say nothing.
So the next time you hear someone using this type of saying “don’t bring me problems bring me the solutions” – the solution is you are either working with or living with an asshole.Who do you need to talk to or who do you need to listen to today?
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